What actually goes on behind the feelings of attraction?

Well, there is an actual chemical and biological explanation! When we feel attracted to someone our brain releases hormones and neurochemicals into our body. Scientifically, there are 5 main chemicals that come into play: Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin, Phenethylamine & Norepinephrine.

Let's take a look!

Phenethylamine is a natural stimulant that chemically is similar to drugs like cocaine. Norepinephrine is both a neurotransmitter and a hormone that plays an important role in our body’s fight or flight mode.

Both of these chemicals are responsible for making our heart race and contribute to the thrill of being in love.

When you are attracted to someone your body releases dopamine which is responsible for the feelings of pleasure and satisfaction. Individuals often repeat behaviors that lead to dopamine release which is why we are all naturally attracted to the feeling of being in love.

Oxytocin is a chemical messenger that plays an important role in many human behaviors including attachment and mother-infant bonding. Oxytocin is also known as the “cuddle chemical” as it is released when you get a hug or touch a pet.

Serotonin is a chemical in our body that carries messages between nerve cells from our brain throughout our body. Our serotonin levels decrease when we are in love. This causes us to be more obsessed and focused on our partner as your ability to judge is reduced.

These chemicals taper off and spike at different times. Because of these chemicals, it's important to really take time to understand and get to know someone.

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